Building Momentum

In the post Seek the Extraordinary Rather Than the Ordinary, there are important time savers that build momentum for each day and throughout your journey.

One example is how waiting time can be used productively by planning, reading for ideas, and making notes of ways to apply your faith.

Your notes become your own private store of wisdom and information that you can draw upon whenever you need it.

Know the truth about who you are because God thinks you’re “AWESOME”. He’s been refining you over the years to fulfill the purpose for which He has for you.

During times of worry or fear, believe that God is for you. Be encouraged by what He has done for you in Christ. For with God is love and with love is purpose and with purpose is courage.

When you truly believe that the Spirit is continually with you, then you boldly step ahead in new and adventurous ways. There is something … a strength you have that no one can do as well as you do. Think of ideas that use this strength of yours and never be surprised by its power.

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Seek the Extraordinary Rather Than the Ordinary

Good Start to Your Day 

Within the post The Spark, explained was the need to accept the fact that time is very precious so you want to spend your time on activities that bring the most meaning and make the biggest impact. There is a limited amount of time and no one knows about tomorrow. That’s why we need to have a “Do It Now Attitude”.

To build momentum, take the initiative for Bible reading, reflection, and prayer. God wants to meet and help you build a great day so set aside a daily time to meet with Him. Listen for plans and directions.

A tool to help was introduced within the Check Yes or No tab on the Power Over Time spreadsheet at this link. It has a self-evaluation exercise to discover areas where initiative can be increased, responsibility can be taken, and control over your time can be enhanced.

To begin your day, the first special time saver you can take is to have a devotional time.  It should provide regular Bible readings along with questions that spark reflection and inspiration. You should be able to get right to what is being studied and completed within 20-30 minutes.

It’s important to keep notes of thoughts or ideas from your daily Bible studies. To have a system that allows you to easily refer back to these notes when a problem needs to be solved. That way you can apply what you learn along your journey.

Prepare for the Future

A football team studies the competition by looking at game film to know the upcoming opponents tendencies. We too face competition. It is anything that holds us back like fear, despair, and hate. So, study the film called life to come up with plans for your tomorrows. Think accurately and make adjustments so you’re in a position to be successful.

Preparation is like insurance for the future and there is no better way to prepare than to have a daily prayer time. As you enter into your daily activities, there are several ideas to try. One is to write down commitments in a calendar so you don’t have conflicting commitments.

Another important time saver is learning to say no so you don’t over commit. Listen to the Spirit’s prompting so you have a clear sense of how to invest your time in order to do things that meet your God given purpose.

Also, have an imperative/important tasks list for daily activities. In performing daily tasks, keep a system of notes and add instructions for how you accomplished the tasks so you can review the notes and determine if improvements can be made.

I read a book a few years back called “Man in the Mirror” and one statement made in this book was that each day is a battle for our thought life. You have to work at being a thinker. Gordon MacDonald in his book, Ordering Your Private World, says that we need to train our minds to be alert and alive, taking on fresh amounts of information every day, regularly producing new discoveries and conclusions. He says that thinkers see old things in new ways; they analyze hypotheses, and are able to separate out what is true from what is false.

We all have periods of time throughout the day when we are waiting. It may include waiting for a doctor or dentist appointment. It may include waiting ten or fifteen minutes for a meeting to start. There are times when we feel time is wasted during a meeting because most of the meeting doesn’t involve what you are working on. This waiting time can be used productively by planning, reading for ideas, and making notes of ways to apply your faith.

You can keep a file of ideas, information, thoughts, and conversations in a software application. Tie together knowledge and experience by using Microsoft applications like word, access and excel to organize what you learn through life.

Organize your ideas by key words so you can easily retrieve when needed. Note the source so you can go back for more information if needed. Your notes become your own private store of wisdom and information that you can draw upon whenever you need it.

Using computer software to store knowledge, ideas, and ways to apply your faith become your playbook to taking on difficulty or the inspiration needed to solve problems. It’s your personal record to store away to use when needed. These ideas become nuggets of gold for the future if they are easily accessible. Michaelangelo, Thomas Edison, and Mark Twain used idea files throughout their life.

Continual Improvement

Know the truth about who you are because God thinks you’re “AWESOME”. He’s been refining you over the years to fulfill the purpose for which He has for you. Identify these strengths and allow God to continue to form the great person you are. Focus on the positives to clear out the negatives. If a negative pops up, replace it with a positive to clean it up. You can memorize scripture to help you with this. Three great scriptures to help in almost any situation are Romans 8:31, Philippians 4:13, and Isaiah 26:3.

Constantly look for better ways to do things. Learn from experiences of the past and learn from past mistakes in order to avoid making mistakes in the future. If you pursue Godly wisdom, you will be more likely to know whose side to be on and listen to the right people. You will follow the right leader because you will listen to those with wholesome values and morals. Like a magnet attracting iron, you will attract treasures for the soul because the elements of God’s principles are at work in you.

So do things the right way even if others seem to get ahead by taking short cuts. The people that always come out on top in the long run are the ones that do things the right way. Not by works but by His will for His purposes. When you do come out on top and have a lot to smile about at the end of your day, know who to give credit when credit is due. Thank God by singing to Him, by praying, by worshiping. Why would anyone want to go against the source of all things? Isn’t it much easier living in His light, trusting in His love, and using His resources? Why would anyone defer this advantage? It just doesn’t make good common sense.

To get tasks done quicker and easier, group similar tasks together. For example, pay all your bills at once or shop for products at the same time depending on the locations you have to go. Use Google Maps to help plan out your shopping. When going to a place you’ve never been before, use street views. That way, you know the landmarks to look for so your destination is planned out in your mind; what turns will be needed, what signs to look for, and the assurance that you are going to the place you need to go.

To get tasks done easier, work together. In a work setting, you can let a trainee work with you for a while and then you can gradually hand over more and more responsibilities to the trainee.

Within a family, you can gradually hand over chores around the house like housekeeping or yard care to a child. This teaches about responsibility and prepares them when they move off on their own. It is best to set a time limit because this develops the habit of concentrated effort. Also, establish a reward for accomplishing the task. An example may be letting a child play after cleaning their room or doing their homework.

Another time saver is to do things right the first time. It’s important to establish standards of performance and set out to accomplish according to those standards. This principle works in many areas of life around the house or performing your tasks on the job.

Boldness

Problems become smaller if you boldly take on the challenge. You don’t want to be the nail but the hammer. The hammer is what delivers the blow. The nail is passive and gets beaten down. Young people who play sports learn to be aggressive because if you’re not, you get hurt. When making a tackle in football, you don’t just stand there and let the other guy run you over. Instead, you deliver the blow first. You want to be the hammer and not the nail.

There is a fine line between being assertive and being overly aggressive. When quick action is necessary, show leadership by making a decision and giving direction. Used appropriately, assertiveness keeps you and your team on track toward accomplishing high-priority items that contribute to reaching your goals.

Be bold my friend and stand up against those that oppose everything that is right. Be filled with faith and assured that the Holy Spirit is actively working with you. Then others will believe and join with you. During times of worry or fear, believe that God is for you. Be encouraged by what He has done for you in Christ. For with God is love and with love is purpose and with purpose is courage.

This week, spend a few minutes completing the Checklist for Time Savings which is found within the spreadsheet being used for many of the lessons at this link. Within this checklist are some questions to help reflect on special time savers. Answer honestly and begin to think of ideas that will help you save time in the future.

In this battle of good against evil, the weapon for good is the double-edged sword or the Word of God. When you truly believe that the Spirit is continually with you, then you boldly step ahead in new and adventurous ways. There is something … a strength you have that no one can do as well as you do. Think of ideas that use this strength of yours and never be surprised by its power.

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Family Teamwork

The family unit has changed over the years with both parents working nowadays so it is even more important today for a family to work as a team.

From the post Using Time Wisely within the Family are some ideas below:

  • To work as a team, it takes communication. The family’s general schedule for meals and family activities needs to be talked about ahead of time and there should be agreement on time commitments. There should also be encouragement and all should share in the rewards of success.
  • To make the home go, all need to be present and pitching in
  • There should be focus on top priorities and quality of time
  • Time saving software can be used
  • When the focus is on God for help with finances and relationships, there is a clear advantage.
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Game Plan

I read a book a while back titled “Game Plan For Life” by Joe Gibbs the 3-Time Super Bowl Champion as coach of the Washington Redskins and also 3-Time NASCAR champion. Some of the main points I got from the book is that we should ask for God’s help in prayer and seek a purpose for which He gives us. When He does, take action by writing it down and trying to answer the following questions?

  • Is my God given purpose specific and can I write specific actions to take?
  • Is my purpose something I’ve talked to God about in prayer and not something someone else has pressured me into?
  • Can I write out my God given purpose in a positive way?
  • Am I willing to make some personality changes to fulfill the purpose God has given?

Mark Shields's avatarStep Ahead

Purpose driven
With persistent action
To gain traction
With satisfaction.

Willing to consider
Any needed change
To fulfill a purpose
For the long range.

Keeping track of tasks,
Being a good student
With thoughts or ideas
For constant improvement.

Asking in prayer for help
And ready to get started
With the purpose of
Aiming for the target.

Following a game plan
Toward the right way
And always praying
For an amazing day.

Poem by Mark Shields – © 08-09-2018

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Using Time Wisely within the Family

Working Together as a Team 

The family unit has changed over the years with both parents working nowadays so it is even more important today for a family to work as a team. Below is a picture of the Golden Gate Bridge.

The bridge is a suspension bridge in which the load-bearing portion is hung below suspension cables. These cables are strands of metal wire twisted together like a rope. Because this cord of three strands is together, it is not easily broken.  Like the golden gate bridge, which is suspended by strands of thick wire, weaved together; the family unit is stronger when all within the unit work together as a team.

The institution of family prepares one for life as each member learns how to cooperate with each other, make decisions, and achieve goals together. These are skills that not only are beneficial in the present but also are valuable skills learned that can be used throughout life in any type of group relationship.

Each family member should contribute to the common purpose by accepting some part of the load. No person should have to do it all. Like Jesus who appointed twelve disciples, it is better to delegate or spread out the tasks at hand even though the tasks may not be done perfect.

The benefits of spreading out the tasks include preparing children for the future when they have their own families. It also allows each individual some private time to recharge. Husband and wife are able spend more time together. Each child gets attention and each sibling gets a chance to build a relationship with each other.

To work as a team, it takes communication. The family’s general schedule for meals and family activities needs to be talked about ahead of time and there should be agreement on time commitments. There should also be encouragement and all should share in the rewards of success.

Being There and Pitching In 

To make the home go, all need to be present and pitching in. The dinner table is a great place to discuss issues and encourage each other. One idea I started when my daughter was around ten is a list of values or inspiring thoughts written down and shared before a family prayer at dinner time.

We have a tremendous responsibility as parents and mentors to those that will follow in our footsteps. The foundation being laid today will determine how bright the future will be. All age groups are needed; the wisdom of the experienced and the energy of the young. Each can do what they do best and fit into God’s plan.

Parenting is one of the most difficult challenges we face and we all need help. Perhaps that is why the subject of parenting shows up a lot in the Bible. The church is God’s best option for loving those in need. Something is fundamentally broken in the world and we all need someone to take us out of the spiritual orphanage and set us on the path to our permanent home.

We are one in Christ as the church with a spirit of adoption that brings others into the family of God by being a leader or mentor; maybe being a Sunday school teacher, working in the nursery or with the youth. God constantly communicates in His Word the importance of being a part of a family.

God created us to help each other. In Joshua 6, the army walked around the city once a day for six days. On the seventh day, Joshua’s army walked around the city seven times. They gave one long blast with their trumpets and the walls of the city fell down. Joshua had his army, David his mighty men, and Jesus surrounded himself with the twelve disciples. We should pray for each other and pull for all families to be successful.

Focus on Top Priorities and Quality of Time 

We live in a world today with information overload. There is more computing power in our phones today than in the computers that sent the spaceship to the moon. There are amazing things we can do today if we could just focus in on what is truly important.

Also, the quality of time for a family is more important in today’s world. People are immersed in their own private concerns with little attention to those physically in their presence. If we are not careful, we miss out on what we need to know.

That is why giving full attention to the task at hand, patience, and focus are even more important in the fast-paced/technology driven world in which we live today. Distractions cause mistakes. One push of a button on a phone might destroy relationships by using social media in a harmful way. One click on a computer can wipe out files that took years of work.

On the other hand, there are amazing benefits given to the present generation because of the ingenuity and innovation of previous generations. There have been great advances made over the years. With today’s phone, we have an encyclopedia right at our fingertips. We have available apps that can get us anywhere in the world.

Using Time Saving Software for the Family

A family who lives, works, grows, and has fun together creates lasting memories. The older a person gets to be, the more memories they gather as they meet during holidays, birthdays, and other occasions; celebrating this life now and the one to come.

But every member of the family should accept some responsibility for making the home go. Chores like washing clothes, making beds, lawn care, and meals have to be done. There is available time saving software that can help in the areas of grocery shopping, meal preparation, and vacation planning.

For years, my family has been using software to help with grocery shopping. Here is a link to one example: Link to Grocery List. We keep a printed copy of the grocery list so each family member can add items to the grocery list when they notice the supply running low. This spreadsheet has a tab at the bottom called Item Pool to keep up with price of products at competing stores. There are other tabs like Grocery List 84 that has items organized under categories (Produce, Meds, Isle 3, Isle 4, Isle 5, etc.).  By listing where items are located within your grocery store, shopping is much more efficient.

Another use of software can be for vacation planning. Each family member can make suggestions and contribute to vacation plans. To help with clothing needs, packing, other preparations for vacation, this Link to Vacation Check List has two tabs at the bottom. One is named Vacation Checklist to help with the planning of a vacation. The other tab is named Cloths & Personal Items to help in packing. A check mark can be put in the box beside each item as a way to assure proper planning has been done and all items are packed.

Faith and the Family

Information overload, busyness, and other worldly endeavors separate us from God but if we live out our faith and put our attention on the Lord, the rest will work out and we can make an impact on the world in a positive way. One thing’s for sure, paying attention to our Spiritual life is vital in getting the information we need.

After a time of Bible Study and prayer, I will usually take our family dog on a walk around the neighborhood. During this time, I will reflect on past memories, think about current times, and dream about an amazing future with God forever. The world tells us God is not real but as I go through each day; taking walks and feeling the fresh breeze hitting my face and hearing the sounds of nature that sooths my soul, I know the world is telling a lie and the ONE who created the breeze and unique music of nature is telling the truth.

When the focus is on God for help with finances and relationships, there is a clear advantage. With God by our side, we receive the greatest yield on our endeavors and the power to solve problems multiplies tremendously. Things are done right and the right things are done.

Imagine if we finished what we started, removed all distractions, remembered the reason and the reward, renewed ourselves daily, and resisted discouragement. Imagine if we put our attention on God, let Him work out the tough situations we face, did things according to His timing, and trusted Him in all we do.

 

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