If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you. – James 1:5
As explained in the post “Lesson of Loving Your Neighbor and Forgiveness”, Paul changed his plans on visiting because the timing was not right. He was Spirit led as God spoke to him in what best to do. He then uses the occasion to teach the Corinthian church leaders about loving your neighbor and forgiveness.
As in this lesson and others throughout God’s word along with the experiences you go through, document lessons learned. Like a lake that collects rain water, you can collect a reservoir of thoughts and ideas from your life over time to be used in the decisions you make.
Take inspiration from the song Word of God Speak by MercyMe because things fall into place when we follow the ways of God. Everyone needs God’s grace and once received, one can gain wisdom to live the way life is meant to be lived.